After years of lusting over his wife Kelis figure that I should seek to redeem myself by displaying a bit of empathy for the rapper Nas. The couple has split up in what was apparently an angry separation. Kelis was pregnant with Nas' son.
Nas had talked about the relationship that he had with his own father. His father is responsible for his own consciousness about the world and the historical plight of the African.
The thought of having a son of your own yet be bared from being in the delivery room because of the hostilities between you as the father and the mother is something that I would not want to experience.
Yeah I could exploit my ideological differences with Nas at this time. I could wage yet another attack on Hip Hop. I could even question how a man could allow his relationship with his wife to degrade to such a point while she is pregnant with their child where he exits the situation, leaving her to the care of her family.
I am above this though.
I can only think back to when my two children were born and how I was allowed in the delivery room. Prior to their birth I was thinking "I am about to met my child for the first time in my life". Not knowing how they would look. Only hoping that they came out healthy.
Nas was not allowed in the delivery room because of the beef with his soon to be ex-wife.
I can only hope that he is able to form a relationship with his son and work out some arrangement with the mother so that they can work together for the best interests of the baby.
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